Description
In a live workshop, David Deida teaches how to open your full sexual spectrum, both gently and passionately, while sustaining deep heart connection with your lover. He also shares ways to grow beyond habitual patterns of closure that unconsciously sabotage your innate desire to merge together in intimate communion, enjoying conscious revelation and responsive beauty through sexual ecstasy.
Track 1: What Do Men Feel?
- The more open you are, the deeper he will be
- Do you want his energy or attention?
- He feels love differently than you do
- Be vulnerable with his fear
- Emotion feels wrong to many men
- He is at home in nothingness, not in your or his emotions
- Beyond abusing your lover with emotions
- Most men choose solitude for spiritual practice
- Show him how he hurts you
- He may not notice your offering
- You are his revelation
- He wants your energy to give you attention
- He feels your pleasure and fear
- He is turned on by your body’s love-translucency
Track 2: How to Love Her with Humor and Tears
- If you want her love, she wants your impeccability
- Use humor to deepen love
- Humor can be a medicine that opens her
- Humor is transcendental
- Create structure first, then soften in humor
- The secret pickup method: crying
- Cry without collapse
- Stand still, breathe, then connect in love’s humor
Track 3: Gifting and Not Diminishing a Strong Woman
- She is with you for your presence
- She is taken by your consciousness
- Surface motion is loved by deep stillness
- Don’t diminish the value of her responsive beauty
- Notice her responsiveness
- Be more structured than her, in body or consciousness
- Find your sexual gifts beyond your body
- Your clarity of consciousness turns her on
- Show to her now, “I love this“
- Discover the gift for which she is with you
- Trauma diminishes your gifts
- Praise her responsiveness
- Train your body to show your deep heart
Track 4: The Erotics of Speech
- Masculine speech organizes space with direction
- Feminine speech reveals the life of the moment
- The feminine enjoys life more than masculine
- Connect deeply before directing
- Look at that bird! masculine effect
- Gorgeous colors! feminine effect
Track 5: The Pleasure of Helplessness
- He wants to explore, navigate and learn by himself
- When your capacities exceed his
- Make an art out of who is better
- When you want a man to take you, be helpless
- Vacate decisions to invite his
- Stages of erotic invitation
- Irresistible: become less structured than he is
- Be more responsive than he is
- Intentional feminine incarnation
- Embrace failure with humor and compassion
- Feel the pulse of the universe through your cervix
- Sit and move so pleasure radiates
- Breathe from your deep liquid pulse
- True beauty: a woman in authentic responsive ecstasy
- Your man is as present as your pleasure is deep
Track 6: Stop Waiting for the Next Moment
- Love can be chaotic
- Love can take any and all forms
- You can stop waiting now
Track 7: Outgrow Your Need to be Seen
- Your 1st stage needs to be recognized for money and looks
- Your 1st stage neediness evokes your lover’s
- Your 3rd stage naturally radiates gifts, but doesn’t need to be seen
- As long as you need to be seen you’ll attract complicated drama
Track 8: The Yoga of Full-Spectrum Sexual Flow
- Lower chakras are more dense
- To be an artist of sexuality, you need to be a maestro of every density
- Love can vibrate dark or light
- Fake spiritual lightness cuts off sexual wisdom
- Women can get much darker than men sexually
- Learn to talk from your passionate heart
- Sexual training by imitating movies
- Learn to speak from every chakra
- Traumas prevent pleasurably flow
- Growth often hurts
- The momentum of life is to grow in loving
- Dark speech is like spice, to be used sparingly
- Your traumas starve your lover
- All day, your lover craves what you can’t give
- Fantasies reveal the missing energy from your sexual diet
